How to Treat and Look at Men

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. (either he is or he is not that into you...)

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. (if it's not meant to be, nothing you do can make it be

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. (Never wanted to be taken for granted ... ever! and Don't settle for anything less, ever again!!)

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up. (it always pays to be true and honest ... its the best policy)

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. (he is a man, nothing more nothing less. who says a man is higher than a woman? sorry, but this is reality ... we're all equal in the sight of God, LOL)

Never let a man define who you are. (only you know who you are. only you are responsible for your actions).

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. (if you allow him to treat you like shit, to take you for granted, to abuse you, then most likely, he probably will ... but not all men are like this, though)

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. (hell yeah! it's ok to be selfish sometimes in order to meet your needs. coz if you're not satisfied simply because he can't fulfill you, then you both can not be happy no matter how hard you try. this is what I call necessary selfish selflessness,)

I hope I made someone become clever by this, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

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